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In every meaningful relationship, there comes the time when you decide to introduce your special someone to those who know and love you best. Of course, the meeting that gets the most attention and even its own movie trilogy is meeting the parents, and rightfully so.
But for guys, at least in my experience, a not-so-distant second is the introduction of a love interest to the buddies. Make an effort to learn their names, some background about our relationship, and what level of friendship we share.
In the most basic sense, I want to be able to talk to a woman about my friends. When I introduce a guy friend for the first time, it would be great if she could remember his name and ask to be reminded if she forgetsask the token icebreaker questions, and show interest in learning about them—not just in getting the inside scoop on me.
So I appreciate it when a woman withholds judgment upon first meeting guys of this type. Like it or not, when a guy brings a girl around his buddies for the first time, she's going to be the center of attention. By the end of the night, people will have an opinion of her, so what sort of opinion do you want them to have?
That nothing about her really stood out? If you're worried that you'll end up talking too much about yourself, just be sure to ask similar questions of others in return. My friends will want to know what my new girlfriend is all about and why we make a good match. So tell them! Understand that, fairly or unfairly, you are going to be perceived as a threat.
So what can you do? Set a good track record even before first meeting his friends. Ask him what nights he plans to spend time with his buddies, and encourage him to do so. Meanwhile, if your man has healthy, long-standing relationships with his buddies, that will only benefit your relationship. He may love to look at you in an old T-shirt and a pair of your favorite yoga pants, but—dumb guy thing or not—he also loves to show you off.
Obviously, if I'm at the stage where I'm introducing a woman to my friends, I like more about her than just her appearance. But I've got to admit that there are a few things that give my heart a little extra flutter, and one of them is when my date puts forth a little effort to look her best around my buddies. Keeping that in mind, just relax, and above all, be yourself—if he's crazy about you, chances are his friends will be, too.
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