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We have hundreds of thousands of swingers all over Ventura looking to meet new people. Here is a list of 16 random Swingers within miles of Ventura, CA. Ventura, California Swingers can be found on Swingular. It's easy to find others using our advanced search technology. We base our search by zipcode Find swingers in ventura ca you will see how far each member is away from you by miles.

You can search locally or you can search by state or zipcode as well. We have thousands of members from Ventura, California so you have a very good chance that you will meet someone to your liking. We also have a booty call feature so you can post a booty call for quick response.

Create your free today and begin hooking up with Ventura Swingers right away! You know you are in the Lifestyle when House Parties - Questions about attending house parties - I guess I am confused by this. Since when was swinging illegal.? Wouldn't it be the hosts problem if the neighbors were nosy.?

They should know their neighborhood and take the appropriate steps. Our neighbors all know, the reason they were nosy is because they wanted to come over, They were just swingers in denial. We are currently moving and looking forward to breaking in some new neighbors.

Their swinging is a bit more complicated as far as the decision process because I would imagine that such a decision would need to be agreed upon by all partners involved. The biggest difference I think between regular swingers and those who are involved in poly relationships is while most people who swing would shun the development of emotional ties to other swingers thinking it would be the doom of their spousal primary relationship, those who are also involved in or those who are open to the possibility of poly relationships would welcome the development of additional relationships for what they are knowing there is neither a need to replace their spouse or run off with the person they have formed this new relationship with.

It does add further complication to their life, but it can also enrich it tremendously. Why Hide Your Faces? I'm not telling people to sporadically start telling the world they're swingers; you'll end relationships. Like after telling my wife, knowing the outcome, not telling her sisters how we were during their vacation together. I asked what she told them and it was one line I knew hurt their little traditional relationship minds. Like I said, it's dangerous expressing the lifestyle. Because it makes more sense than todays definition of love. I'm trying to think if ever a conversation came up toward me having to explain how I am, and none exist other than me telling my mom, "I know the secret to Find swingers in ventura ca having to explain.

They would have been great swingers Unfortunately the lifestyle has become so adulterated pun intended by just about anyone who thinks it's a free, easy way to get NSA sex that you now have a virtual cornucopia of people who don't really "get it". What I guess I'm trying to say is that it seems like it's no longer wife swapping or swinging.

It's now "the lifestyle" and apparently includes every manner of sexual libertine imaginable including those who view swingers and yes I mean mostly females as wanton sluts who are borderline nymphomaniacs that lack the capacity or will to say or mean "No. It would be very interesting to poll women who have been in the lifestyle for a considerable amount of time, say ten, fifteen or twenty years, and ask them if they're ever had to more or less fight a guy off or worse, or if they've ever entertained unwanted advances so as to not rock the boat or harsh the vibe at a swing party. Sadly I'd be willing to bet the would be fairly high.

The best place to find friends is Habits in south salt lake. From the few that actually took the time to respond I can't remember anyone doing more than saying no thanks. We did save one response to a rejection letter we sent, the only one ever saved. It was quite a read. It was in response to one of our nicer rejecting letters where we politely pointed out we had no interest and suggested some swingers groups they might consider exploring they were just started to explore the lifestyle.

We've decided to post a statement regarding our stance on this issue and also help our members understand how to better protect themselves from this and when future issues arise. First of all, neither Swingular nor it's representatives have been contacted by any member representing CW to do an article. If they say they have, then the person they talked to was not truly a Swingular representative. If Swingular had been contacted by anyone concerning articles about Swingular or swinging in general, our official position is to say 'no thanks' and pass on it.

However, that does not mean that those requesting to do the article will find the information they are seeking, one way or another. Find swingers in ventura ca like you can find an adult dating site, so can anyone else. Otherwise, these types of sites would not be in existence if nobody could find out about them. We cannot stop those who wish to investigate the world of swinging and from them telling the rest of the world about it.

Every time somebody does an article or spot on the evening news about swinging in the local scene, are we supposed to lock down, run and hide? It's going to happen no matter what you do. So our job is to find ways to best protect the privacy of our members and to inform them on how they can protect themselves. When an article or news story comes out, we have kept track of any unusual activity on the site as well as new ups from that local area.

In fact, it's been a bit lower. We've averaged about new ups a day from the Salt Lake City area for the past 14 days compared to new ups a day in October. The reality of it is this. If my family didn't know I was a swinger and saw an article about swinging, I guarantee they aren't going to 'check' if anyone they know is. They'd rather not know. I think the majority of non-swingers would rather NOT find out if someone in their family was. Yes, there may be a few more lookie lous, but I guarantee you they are looking because they are curious about it, not because they are against it.

If you are against porn, are you going to go to a porn site to see what kind of porn is out there? I don't think so. I think you would stay away from something you don't believe in. And that seems to be the case with this recent article according to the stats.

Even if someone decides to check it out and see, the only thing they will be able to see is your basic info and your primary photo. Only paying members can see your full albums and only your friends can see your private albums. I don't think many people are going to pay for a membership just to find out if their friends and family are swingers. I'm sure they don't want their hard earned money profiting a site like this. We have been in this business for over 8 years and have seen it all and we can tell you it's more paranoia than anything.

What it comes down to is what you need to do to be able to enjoy this site and at the same time, protect your privacy. So we have come up with some things that you can do to be able to move forward and not worry every time someone or some reporter starts talking about the lifestyle. Use a unique username that none of your non-lifestyle friends know of. If you need to change it, please. Do not post anything that can identify you personally in your profile descriptions such as addresses and phone s or visible tatoos. Post faceless pictures in your public album. Make sure you don't expose anything on you or around you that someone can identify.

You don't need to post cartoons or backgrounds, etc Nobody is going to figure out who you are with faceless pictures. If you need help editing your images, and we will edit them for you or recommend someone who can. You can also use a free online photo editing site such as www. Do not post any identifiable information in the forums just like I mentioned in 2 above.

Use caution when adding friends. Get to know someone first. Use caution when allowing others to see your pictures. There are a lot of picture collectors and fakes out there so if you get a request to see your private album from a couple or single female, voice verify first by phone. Use caution when sending or replying to s. Use your initials instead of your full names or use aliases until you get to know someone a little better.

And last, let these things go. The more you talk about it, the more you feed the fire. I know it's great drama and presents conversation but you're only bringing more attention to the topic. Sooner than later, it will die, if you let it. By following these simple suggestions, you will be able to maintain your privacy and still be able to enjoy using a website like this to meet others. It's not necessary to completely such down your profile in fear.

Are you going to do this every time it happens? Well then you might as well just remove yourself from the scene then because it's going to come up again sooner or later. It's inevitable. We hope this helps some of you and hope it helps clear up some of your concerns.

Your privacy is our top priority so if you have any questions or concerns, please. Thank you, Swingular Administration Note: We have removed any negativity or hate posts surrounding these issues. We feel that it is hurting the lifestyle as a whole and does not belong on a site like this. We have had many new members saying they do not wish to be a part of a site with so much hate. That is not the intention of a Swingers dating site.

Therefore, we will be removing any new postings that involve hate and negativity. If you wish to debate in a friendly matter or post your opinion in a non-threatening or mature way, then do so. We do not believe in censorship however we do believe in providing a safe, comfortable and friendly place for everyone in the lifestyle to enjoy.

I RSVPd to a party on the homebut it says there's an person limit and there are twice the already ed up. Chances are, I won't get in. So where Find swingers in ventura ca a good place to go to just have fun with like-minded people? Ventura Swingers in California. Return to Swingular Why Swing? LOL 'No pressure!

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